So I'll tell you what I want... What I really, really want...
Okay so while I was out this weekend, one of the guys suggested that I should come up with a laundry list of what I am looking for in a guy. Somehow this was reiterated several times this weekend.
I talked to my Mom and I guess my Cousin has someone she wants to set me up with. Later that day I talked with my friend T and her Mom has someone that she wants to set me up with. The comment on both of them was that they were just perfect for me or just what I would be looking for. Okay. Now this made me stop and think. I have no friggin clue on what they hell I am looking for in a man. Does this mean that I am completely clueless on what it is that I need to look for in a man? Does it mean that everyone who knows me knows what it is that I should be looking for?
I sit here and think of the list that I would come up with and I have to admit it is completely lame:
Must be able to use a computer...
Know what PBS stands for as well as NBA...
Can cook... (both meanings)
Can relinquish the remote control without withdrawals of power and control...
Knows how to sleep in sometimes...
Has a pulse and can speak sentences containing more than one word...
And well that is all that I came up with. Do you know how long ago I started this list? Well it was a while ago that is for sure. That list is lame. I wonder what others see as my list?
The whole concept of dating is just something I am not into. I like not having to check in with someone. I like being able to do whatever comes along that sounds like fun without the possible conflict of what my "S/O" wants to do. I like the fact that I can do what I like when I like it.
When I broke my hand the one comment that my friends and family would say is that I am too independent. I would (for the most part) try and do something first before asking for help. There were a couple of people that were just so annoyed with this whole concept. They know who they are and they are probably reading this and they should know I am laughing my ass off!
I guess I will have to figure that whole "Wants" list out on my own. Maybe I should just start in the opposite direction (a don't want list) and go from there.
On other news... JB called and I got to talk to him. Sounds like things are going okay. Still sending out lots of love and positive thoughts! It was really good talking to you.
Have to work late tonight, so I will be busting a move and doing laundry and packing till the wee hours of the morning.
Other than that not a lot going on. Just lots of running around at work today.
Well time to feed the need. It's dinner time and I need to be back to finish a CD.
**** 20 Minutes Later ****
Went to the store and found what I wanted. Okay it is not a long term relationship... but as a toy... a fireman would do nicely! Hehehehehe... :)
Till next time.Interested in more of my rants? BACK
